Falling in love: by chance or choice?

Falling in love: by chance or choice?


In the course of our life we come across many people. Some people just touch our heart so deeply. Whenever we interact with them we feel more relaxed and comfortable. We want to talk with them whenever we feel alone or sad because we think that person can make us feel good. We enjoy their company and forget all about our worries.

We just love them madly without knowing he or she also has same feelings for us. We also don’t bother whether we fell in love with right or wrong person. We feel like our loved one is our world no matter what is his or her background. We become so crazy that even we think of dieing if we don’t get the one whom we love.

Here the question arises whether this all happened by our choice or just by chance. Most of us believe that all this happens by chance. But personally I believe the person comes in our life by chance but the feelings we develop for him or her are by choice. We start getting involved in that person because we want to be with him or her. When our willing is involved then how we can say that it’s happening just by chance. I believe it’s in one control to avoid such situation. If we will try to don’t pay attention we can get over it.  

We can develop love through communicating, showing care, and spending time with that particular person but at the same time it’s in our hands to kill such feelings, by deciding no contact at all. Distance and lack of communication or care, would eventually kill such feelings.