Friday, 31 August 2012

How to keep our love alive throughout our life ♥

How to keep our love alive throughout our life ♥

We try to find perfect love for ourselves and in this search we come to meet different people having different ideas and thoughts. Then a person comes in our life that we consider is the bes
t one. We think he will make our life perfect and keep us happy forever. We fall in love with each other. Day by day relationship gets stronger and stronger. Actually this is the time when we start understanding each other.

With the passage of time we start expecting lots of thing from them to do for us. We expect that our loved one can do everything for us but when they fail to do anything we get hurt like hell and here the time comes when misunderstandings start growing. We start feeling minor things and take notice of every little thing. It becomes difficult to ignore and bear the mistakes. Eventually we start forgetting all the good moments of life that we spent together. That’s how relationships become weak with the passage of time and the love is lost somewhere and compromise takes place of it.




For keeping a healthy relationship, we should avoid the little things. We should ignore each others’ mistakes. We should try our best to live happy life, full of love and fun. Expectations always hurt. We must be realistic. We must accept our partner as it is. One should avoid comparing one’s partner with others. Try to avoid speaking when one is in anger. Above all one should be positive.

There must be mutual understanding. Mutual understanding will help to keep caring attitude towards each other. One should understand the responsibilities and busy schedules of each other but regardless of busy routine one must find time for each other. One must understand mood of each other.

Don't let your love grow cold. Keep your love alive.

Wednesday, 29 August 2012

The Pursuit of Happiness


The Pursuit of Happiness

Let’s think from beginning of our life
The first day when we’re born in the world
and think up to our last day in this world…

Our life begins with our crying…
and end with people crying around us..

From childhood our parents start teaching us to live happy life…
and our mission of finding happiness start around the age of 7- 9…

We keep on struggling through out…
Only to live happy life like others..
Only to have good people around us…
Only to have everything that others have..

In the race of life…
We face different situations..
We suffer from different problems…
We start thinking life is just like a game…

Time goes on..
We just keep on struggling…
For achieving everything that others have…
We try to find happiness..
By comparing ourselves with others…

When we become old and feeble..
We realize that..
Happiness we were searching for…
That was all around us…
But we couldn’t focus on it…

On that time we are..
At the last stage of our life…
At that time we realize…
That its too late to go back and live happy life…

If you want to live happy life..
Enjoy every moment of life..
Don’t wait for any right moment…
Make every moment right by yourself..

Rather than finding happiness…
In any other source..
Start finding it in yourself
Golden Rules to Spend a Happy Life

God has sent us all in this world with a purpose. This world is a place of trial and testing. We all are accountable for how we spend our lives. We all have to face different sort of life challenges through out our life. Those who remain consistent and face these challenges courageously are succeeded. But unfortunately some of us lead a purposeless life. Some people just pass on life without understanding its true sense and fail in competing life challenges.

The difference between winners and quitters is that winners remain consistent through out whereas loser just lose heart and give up. Whereas the main purpose of life is to remain consistent and be patient regardless of the circumstances. So those who don’t face life complexities with courage make their life like a hell. Here are some Golden Rules that we can adopt to make the best use of our lives.

-Pray and have strong faith.
-Never lose hope.
-Avoid negative thinking.
-Be positive and be good at your end.
-Forgive easily and be kind and polite to others.
-Be honest, loyal and sincere.
-Be pure and eliminate selfishness. 
-Share happiness
-Love yourself and live for other 
-Try to speak with smile on your face

One key point is that do each and everything just for the sake of God. Surely, you will be blessed in every field of life.